This guide will hopefully help get you started, but your own experience will really help inform your approach. We promise you it will become less methodical-and way more fun-as you make progress. There is a true art to being a bottom and thinking about it in a step-by-step process is key to its success.
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It takes time to get hardwired for complete and full control of your butt muscles. You need regular dilation to allow for the full relaxation – not only to enjoy butt play, but to minimize injury.
You know that feeling when you skip the gym for a couple of weeks and then you try jumping right back in? It doesn’t go well. Your top will probably have some pointers too! 5. Once this occurs, you can start experimenting with other positions, all the while analyzing the best angles for entry and enjoyment. This may take time-in one or several sessions-to allow you to truly embrace it all and feel beyond comfortable. Take more of a dominating role in the initial stages: make sure you’re in complete control of the speed and depth, until your butt relaxes to its max potential. Once dilated and ready to go, I recommend sitting on the “D” and maneuvering until you find the experience comfortable and pleasurable. Bottom on top? Best positions for new bottoms Nowadays, there are plenty of options that are so thin they feel like you aren’t even wearing anything, so pick a couple and find the one that you and your partner like the most. With the rapid adoption of PrEP, condom use has declined however, using condoms for added protection is still an effective way to reduce the transmission of STD’s. You’ll want to make sure you have some essential supplies at your fingertips: a handful of your favorite condoms (if you use them), ample amounts of your favorite lube (make sure it’s compatible with your condoms), and a small towel to help clean up. Continue using the plugs before or during butt play for the first few times, as well as taking a more dominating role in the beginning. Once you’ve succeeded in using all of your plugs with ease, you’re ready for your first time bottoming with the real thing. Try the solution for clean, confident play. The large is quite large: most people are ready for the real thing once they’ve managed with the medium. After that, add the large plug, which can take 4-6 weeks to work your way up to. Use the small plug for two weeks, then both the small and medium plugs for the following two weeks. Also attempting real-life scenarios will allow everything that follows to go smoothly. Playing with yourself while doing your workout is a good idea, as it helps you learn to control your pelvic floor. You’ll notice everything relaxes over time-gradual progression is key. The more experienced you get, the longer you’ll be able to play comfortably. If it’s too much, it’s OK to end that session and then try again another day. Keep this cycle going for 12-15 times for a complete session. This shouldn’t be painful at all-most people need to repeat this 4-6 times before complete insertion. Re-lubricate and insert again with a similar technique of slowly in, meeting resistance, and then slowly pulling out. Try to consciously relax to accommodate and then slowly remove once you hit resistance-all in one continuous motion. Using your kit-and tons of lube-start some gentle butt play with the small dilator until you feel pressure from the muscles in your butt. You’ll also need a water-based or toy-safe lube (as silicone lube can ruin silicone toys). Next: invest in a kit with three gradual dilators ( small, medium, and large plugs). We have three major muscles in our butt-all of them need to be relaxed for complete (and successful) entry. So you need to train them to relax on demand, in order to allow in toys, the ‘real thing’ or anything else you want to put in there (if that’s your goal). Get into training & relax your bottomįirst, some science: we spend most of our time with our butt muscles clenched.
For now, let’s get into some tips for becoming a bottom safely and smartly.
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In addition to this guide, you may also want to check out our article about how to use lube for your bottom, which has more advice you might find useful.
Remember: it’s your butt, so you call the shots, including when the fun is over. When it’s time to play with someone else-and this is important-find a top you trust. Before anyone else gets involved, there are a few steps outlined below that you should review and run through before you start bottoming. It’s human to worry, but know this: when it’s done properly, bottoming should be a fantastic-and pain-free-experience. Are you a first time bottom? If you’re new to bottoming, you probably have a ton of questions-and worries-about what’s in store.